What's a twin flame ?
Twin flame is a spiritual believe. It is a divine couple with a shared spiritual mission of the soul.
It is one unique soul which was divided from the start. It was split to enter two different bodies. These two souls have met regularly in past lives but have always been separated in tragic ways. This belief requires that reincarnation does exist.
There are also souls that are split in three. It is in this context that Eternal Flames appear. This phenomenon is extremely rare but real as I experience it. It is paramount to remind oneself that this adventure is spiritual and paradoxically the path is taken separately after the separation of the twins. The Chaser, the one who chases or is awake and the Runner the one who tries to escape and is sleepy. In the case of an Eternal Flame, the path is slightly different whilst being even more spiritual. The challenges are greater however, the outcome more intense.
The chaser is the first twin to realise the importance of the link and of the other twin.
For him, the link with the flame is natural even though they cannot describe it.
They quickly see the strength and the power of the link. Therefore, they tend to “follow” their flame or twin soul, while trying to contain this relationship in a “frame”. Indeed, the chaser often has a particularity:
The chaser controls his life, his emotions and his twin flame.
His/her runner however, unconsciously will not let him/herself be controlled. They are going to escape one way or another hence the use of the word runner.
According to Fabien Marchand et Denis Mourizard et Anais Doussot in their book “Flamme Jumelle” (Twin Flame) De la gemelite a l’uncite p132 “the chaser received a coherent education form both his parents (…). They usually have a clear vision of what is needed in their lives to succeed […] career, financial autonomy, recognition.”
The chaser is restricted by limiting beliefs and attaches a great dal of importance to material things. This is the reason why he wants to put his flame in a box.
I have a comical and revealing anecdote regarding a friend of mine that illustrate this behaviour for numerous chasers. Two friends of mine (both ladies chasers) explained to me recently that they had for habit to stock pile food:
2 big freezers full of food
Cupboards overflowing with provisions
3 spare packets of coffee ….
Since they have met their flame and started the work on themselves, they change their behaviour in a very natural manner. One of them goes shopping every other day and has stopped squirrelling away and the other one has very nearly avoided running out of toilet paper!
Generally, a chaser will privilege his career, his bank account and will struggle to not control their life even in the twin flame process. They will be very dynamic and will expect their runner to bend to either their rhythm or their life module.
The runner is the twin who does not realise they are in a very special relationship.
They realise it after a very long time and often, they have a kind of amnesia when it comes to their love. At first, he/she is not conscious of the power of this love. However, he/she is at ease with his/her flame (they don’t refer to them as flame though). He/she is comfortable and trusting but without naming this feeling. They have never felt a love like that, yet they do not question it. It feels natural and gentle. I am the runner in my twin flame relationship. The way I express my love is through gentleness and beauty, especially in an artistical manner. For years, I was sending my twin numerous artistical pictures of landscapes without ever questioning why I had that urge to send them to him. At the moment, I send him poems which you can find on this website by clicking on the link “Poems”.